Settled in but Unsettled

Yesterday our internet service was hooked up, the last step in achieving functional normalcy of life. In a way, it represents the very end of our transitional period, and strangely, I found myself wishing that it could have lasted just a little bit longer. It was equal parts vacation, retreat, mad dash, and annoyance, but now that we haven’t got anything related to it coming up – nothing we have to wait for – I feel as though I missed a step on the stairs and life has told me, “Okay, go!” I didn’t knit or crochet much at all, I read more books than I have in a long time, and we spent more time together than we’re likely to get for months.

View from my porch

That’s the view off of my porch. Aren’t those trees lovely? The white stuff at the bottom isn’t snow (that’s been gone for a few weeks now), but little plastic tents they put over whatever it is they’re planting out there. I don’t know a lot about rice cultivation, but I’m pretty sure it involves flooding the field with water, so I don’t think that’s it. Maybe they’re growing cabbages.

We’re getting nicely adjusted to the Japanese city in which we find ourselves. We chose to live off base because really, that’s the point of us being here, isn’t it? To gain an experience? This is my first time being out of the US (I never even made it to Alaska or Hawaii) and I’m shocked at the difference in perspective that it lends. For example, we get the currency exchange rate on the radio about once an hour. When we were first preparing to move here last summer, a dollar was worth about 120 yen. In the month and a half that we’ve been here, it plummeted from 114 to 95 yen to the dollar – although it’s beginning to come back up a little. It’s interesting that we get a lot of the same information about the economy that I remember hearing in Texas, but a better idea of what it means to have a ‘housing slump’ or an ‘economic downturn.’ I don’t want to dwell on that today, though.

Shoe room

One side effect of living off base is that our house is more in the Japanese style than the quarters on-base. The houses built specifically for use by military personnel have been ‘Americanized’ but there are still some standout differences. We have a very nice little shoe room, for instance, where people can remove their shoes before entering the main house. (On the left there is a spectacular coat closet with many shelves which has, for once, given us adequate space for all of the shoes we own.)

When the movers brought us our things they were always careful to remove their shoes before entering. Off when they brought a box in, back on to go out to the truck. You haven’t seen dexterity until you’ve seen a man walking backwards and carrying one end of a sofa remove his shoes mid-stride using nothing but the toes of the other foot. I know I was more than a little amazed.

The house also features three very nice skylights.

my skylight

While I’m not sure whether that’s an element of Japanese culture evidenced in the building or they thought Americans expected skylights, or they just thought it would be nice – I appreciate it. The sunlight here is not as strong as it is in Texas (woohoo) although it begins considerably earlier. They don’t save daylight here, and I’m told that in the summer we can expect sunrise around three-thirty or four am. These days the sun comes up about five-thirty, and I’m still looking for a better way to block it in the boy’s room because it usually wakes them up. Me too, to be honest, but I usually have the sense to roll over and go back to sleep. Not so a three-year-old convinced it’s ‘morning time’ and eager to get at the toys.

Another unusual aspect of the house – albeit one we expected – is the bathing arrangements. We have a western-style toilet, of course (thank goodness) but ‘western-style’ is not the same as ‘American,’ and it has some interesting features. My personal favorite is the heated seat. Between that and the little electric heater installed in the wall right beside your legs, a midnight trip to the bathroom is not that cold. Seriously, though, when we moved in, a toilet technician came to inspect it and make sure everything was working correctly. Here’s a picture of the remote, complete with helpful illustrations:

the remote for our bidet
the bathing area

That’s right: we have a remote-controlled bidet. Some of our friends have warned that when visiting certain other friends, we should always check to be sure the remote is in the bathroom before using it. Haha. Anyway, the bathroom is the last thing I’m going to touch on today. It’s in a separate room from the toilet and is divided into two sections – one part with shelves, a sink, and a mirror, and the other with the shower and tub. I say shower and tub because, as you see, they are separate. You’re supposed to do all of your washing and soaping and rinsing outside the tub (there’s a covered drain in the floor) and then soak in the tub , which is markedly deeper than a standard bathtub. It took us about a week to get used to it, but it’s really quite nice. I’m sure it’s something we’re going to miss about our stay in this country.

At any rate, we’re here. We made it. And all that’s left is for us to find the routines of daily life after two months out of them and an ocean away from them…

Hallelujah

Tomorrow is the last day. We’re shoving everything back into suitcases after five weeks in a tiny one-bedroom suite and moving into our lovely 4 bedroom house (complete with 2 car garage and deck) on Friday.

I don’t know when we’ll get internet (we’re getting furnishings and appliances on Monday – woohoo air matresses!) but you know what? I don’t care. I’m just so glad to be getting into our house. Plus, the delivery on Monday is supposed to include a small selection of my yarn…

PS: Happy Anniversary. You know who you are.

Journey to Japan: the aftermath

Hi, everybody! Sorry for the long gaps between installments, but we don’t have internet access in our building. I end up going to a computer lab across the way about once a week…which is really limiting.

When we finally made it here there were two huge things that we had to adjust to almost immediately. One was the time change: you can’t go from Texas to Japan in one fell swoop without getting your times all mixed up. We pushed hard for a quick adjustment (we had an easy start because we didn’t get to our hotel in Tokyo until about 6pm and crashed almost immediately) but it’s really hard to convince a one year old and a three year old that they need to try and sleep a little longer because while it may feel like late morning, it’s ‘really’ 2 am. It’s also a bit of a drag when none of the restaurants open until 5:30 and you really want some breakfast – or something…they had spaghetti and corn soup on the breakfast bar – at 4. We were mostly over the jetlag after the first week, through rigid scheduling and merciless nap regulation. No biggie.

The second was the weather. The moment we stepped off the plane we could smell the snow on the air and felt the real, winter cold that we haven’t had for years. We weren’t quite as prepared as we thought we had been (gloves would have been nice while we were waiting on the taxi at the curb), but we did all right. The boys, of course, were distressed by the cold winds and interested by the white stuff all over. At first, Max insisted it was ice cream. Now he’s just afraid of it.

Yes, you read that correctly: my three year old is afraid of snow. He likes to look at it out the window, and he says he wants to play in it, and he speaks excitedly about ‘snowmans,’ but get him up close to it and he’s petrified. I don’t think he was at first, but after a few times walking in it (getting it stuck to his shoes, and on his pants) and feeling how cold it really is outside, he started crying when we made him walk on it. Trying to get him out of the car into a snowy parking lot is like trying to get a cat into a bathtub. It’s even more fun when we have to walk outside while it’s snowing. He fusses, and stalls, and tries to keep the snowflakes off of him, all while crying because he’s getting cold. He prefers ice, actually: it doesn’t get stuck to him. His rehabilitation is a gradual process, but he’s making small steps and I feel confident that by next winter he’ll be playing in the snow with everybody else.

You may be surprised that I didn’t mention culture shock as one of the immediate adjustments we had to make. Certainly it was in evidence; the minute we stepped onto the plane for our transcontinental flight we were immersed in a sea of Japanese and Japanese people – they even gave us sushi with our dinner – but to be honest, it didn’t affect us that much. That was the one aspect of our trip that we had prepared most for! We expected and welcomed the experiences, even going so far as to try to get something out of JapanTV (which was also playing) when we got sick of Bee Movie.

It took a little longer for the cultural disorientation to set in; it didn’t really start until we began establishing normal daily routines (as normal as they can be in this transition…we are in temporary lodging, after all). So far, we’re enjoying Japan and its people very much: it’s only every once in a while that we really feel how displaced we are.